Proper etiquette is important is during mealtime for everyone who sits at the table, including children, should know some basic manners and usage so that everyone can enjoy their meals.
Basic table manners should be firmly instilled in children as early as possible and come naturally to them by the time they are old enough to start school. Here we have mentioned a list of basic table manners that everyone including child and adult should learn, practice, and have under control during mealtime.
At the Start of the Meal
Arrive at the table with clean hands and a clean face, and in general in an orderly fashion. Your hair should be neatly combed, your clothing should be clean.After you're seated, your napkin should be removed from the table and placed across your lap. This is the first thing that you should do upon being seated.
Wait for your host or hostess to begin eating. In general, you should not begin eating until after your host or hostess is seated and he or she invites you to start eating or begins eating him/herself.
Sitting at the Table
During the meal, you should remain seated until everyone is finished. Remember to use good posture.
Here is an old saying that will help you with keeping your elbows off of the table. It is perfectly acceptable for you to rest your forearms on the edge of the table as long as you don't tip the table. During the meal, you can rest your passive hand across your lap.
While Eating During the Meal
Always remember to chew with your mouth closed. No one wants to see partially chewed food. Wait until you have finished chewing and swallowing your bite before you speak. If someone has asked you a question, gesture that you will answer in just a moment by raising your hand or finger, signaling that you've heard them.
Be complimentary. If you do not like the food, you should never say so. Simply eat around the food you do not like without comment. If the host asks whether or not you like the food, say that you enjoyed the meal.
Talking During the Meal
Think of creative and pleasant things to discuss and talk about during the meal. Avoid any controversial topic that can cause indigestion.
Show courtesy by not interrupting others while they are speaking.
Refrain from engaging in rude and disruptive behavior such as burping, snorting or singing.
After the Meal is Over and You're Finished Eating
Show your gratitude by thanking your host for the meal.
When you have finished your meal, if others are still eating, you should remain seated if possible. If you need to get up for any reason, you will want to ask for permission to be excused. This is a courtesy request from both children and adults as well.
Offer to help your host, hostess, mom or dad by way of clearing the table or another cleaning task as needed. It is rude to eat and run, leaving the host with a mess. Mealtime with the family, friends, and business associates should be an enjoyable experience. By following these simple tips can help you go a long way toward increasing your quality of mealtime dining pleasure.